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Reason, Season or Lifetime

Reason, Season or Lifetime

People come into your life for a Reason, a Season or a Lifetime.  When
you know which one it is for a person, you will know what to do for that
person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON,  it is usually to meet a need
you have expressed. They have come to assist you through difficulty, to
provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually.

They may seem like a Godsend, and they are!


They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any
wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will
say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.  Sometimes they
die.  Sometimes they walk away.  Sometimes they act up and force you to
take a stand.  What we must realize is that our need has been met, our
desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been
answered, and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come
to share,  grow,  or learn. They bring you an experience of peace,  or make
you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They
usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.  Believe it!  It is real!  But, only for a season.

LIFETIME:  relationships teach you lifetime lessons:  things you must
build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.  Your job is
to accept the lesson,  love the person,  and put what you have learned to
use in all other relationships and areas of your life.  It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Send this to every friend you feel is there for a Season, a Reason or for a Lifetime....